Loving Perspectives

The Relationship Dance

My wusband (husband, past tense) and I used to do a dance — a couple of them actually. And I don’t mean salsa or tango. I mean that we had ways of relating that perpetuated our beliefs and fears, that we kept doing over and over. I discovered my steps in the dance through therapy …

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Loving Perspectives

Here’s what I’m offering 1 on 1…

A cycle has ended. It’s a new day. I think this day was emerging for me when I took the Infinite Purpose course, knowing that I was ready for a teacher again. That led to the start of Sol Interfaith Community, and the remembrance of the joy I have in teaching, writing and leading ceremony. …

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Musings

6 Essential Coping Skills for Life

During my first marriage my wusband (past tense for husband, a word I adopted from a wise friend) was drinking a lot, as alcoholics do… until they don’t. In between binges or out of the fog sometimes he would have profound moments of clarity. I’ll never forget him saying just before falling asleep, drunk, one …

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