Musings

Compassion… it’s the new sexy.

I have a crush on my vet… or my dogs’ vet. You know what I mean. I had a crush on my vet in New York too, which makes me realize that it’s not as much what these guys look like or how well I know them — because really, how well do I know …

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Mother’s Day Confession

There is a lot of judgment around mothering. There is great expectation because we have an idea of what mothering is, of what it should be. If we didn’t get that we feel as if something is missing. We are wounded. We judge women who do not or could not live up to that task of “being …

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What if I had a magic wand?

I ask clients who see me for SoL Sessions, “If I had a magic wand, what would we do for you?” All too often the answer begins with, “I don’t want…” “I don’t want to feel insecure anymore.” “I don’t want to keep doing this thing I’m doing.” “I don’t want to be so anxious.” “I …

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